Chapter 60 The Past
Even when searg for a job, applying for the same positio pah different interviewers leads to differes.
就连找工作，找同样的职位，不同公司面对不同的面试官都是不同的要求。
Some people admire you aaion. Both sides feel positive during the versation, and you se that they value you. The interviewer decides that you are the talent they are looking for, suitable for the positi.
有的人欣赏你，一见如故，一聊双方都有好感，你觉得对方重视你，面试官决定你就是他要找的人才，适合他所招聘的岗位。
Oher hand, some ay not really o fill the positioestio see if they d a perfedidate. In such cases, the demands be high because they do not really o hire someone. When fag these kinds of paerviewers, the result be disappointing aening.
而有的人或许是因为根本就不缺这个职位，只是虚挂职位看能不能淘到真金白银，所以要求极高，因为他们不缺人，并没有实际意义上的需求，遇到这样的公司，这样的面试官往往让人失望，败兴而归。
Therefore, the same person with the same abilities, looking for the same job simultaneously, have vastly different outes dependierviewer.
所以同样的人，同样的能力，在同一时间段去找同样职位的工作，因为面对的面试官不同其结果也是天差地别的。
The differeween people play a decisive role iy.
人与人的差异化在社会上起着决定作用。
These experiend refle job huntiehe definition of love.
这些找工作的经验和总结，其实是可以延伸到爱情的定义。
Love is mutual admiration and likiwo pee must be built oion of love.
爱情就是两人相互欣赏、相互喜欢，婚姻一定是建立在爱情的基础上的。
Love must arriage. Ihis order easily lead to bitter ces.
必定是先有爱情，后有婚姻。本末倒置，很容易自食苦果。
"I won't talk much, but I must tell you the path you've is very tough, a may not be as you hoped."
“别的我不想多说，我只是想告诉你你选的这条路是很艰难的，而且结果并不一定如你所愿。”
"In this world, every es with risks. Nothing is guarao be a hu successful or a hu failure. We must recile with our ces while als to settle. Life is a journey e, and as long as our health remains sound, there will always be a way forward. The only is pushing ourselves excessively and falling si able."
“在这个世界上任何选择都有风险，没有一件事情能有百分百的成功也没有百分百的失败，人既要认命，又要不认命。日子是自己过出来的，只要自己身体能保证健康，就一定有路走。当自己能力欠缺之时就是怕把身体搞垮了。”
"But sinade up your mind, I hope you will make it to the end he result. Quitting halfway is hing my daughter will do."
“但是既然你决定了，那么不管结果如何，我也希望你能坚持走到底。半途而废不是我赵露的女儿。”
"Remember, whatever others offer you reflects your ih and the value you hold for them. "
“记住别人给你的东西是因为你本来就值得，你对别人有价值。别人对你有所求才会给予。”
"People give whe somethiurn. Life is aeh various euphemisms. You ot to overthink and burden yress oime. Regardless, , e propels you forward. Don't worry too much about what others say. Those who opi experieruggle 't truly prehend it. Why should their views matter?"
“人生在世都是利益交换。然后生成了各种美化词。一个人可以不想太多给自己增加烦恼，也可以走一步算一步，但是每一步你都要好好走。要保证自己脚下的每一步都比上一步强，也不要太在乎别人怎么说你。那些打秋千的站着说话不腰疼，理那么多干什么？”
就连找工作，找同样的职位，不同公司面对不同的面试官都是不同的要求。
Some people admire you aaion. Both sides feel positive during the versation, and you se that they value you. The interviewer decides that you are the talent they are looking for, suitable for the positi.
有的人欣赏你，一见如故，一聊双方都有好感，你觉得对方重视你，面试官决定你就是他要找的人才，适合他所招聘的岗位。
Oher hand, some ay not really o fill the positioestio see if they d a perfedidate. In such cases, the demands be high because they do not really o hire someone. When fag these kinds of paerviewers, the result be disappointing aening.
而有的人或许是因为根本就不缺这个职位，只是虚挂职位看能不能淘到真金白银，所以要求极高，因为他们不缺人，并没有实际意义上的需求，遇到这样的公司，这样的面试官往往让人失望，败兴而归。
Therefore, the same person with the same abilities, looking for the same job simultaneously, have vastly different outes dependierviewer.
所以同样的人，同样的能力，在同一时间段去找同样职位的工作，因为面对的面试官不同其结果也是天差地别的。
The differeween people play a decisive role iy.
人与人的差异化在社会上起着决定作用。
These experiend refle job huntiehe definition of love.
这些找工作的经验和总结，其实是可以延伸到爱情的定义。
Love is mutual admiration and likiwo pee must be built oion of love.
爱情就是两人相互欣赏、相互喜欢，婚姻一定是建立在爱情的基础上的。
Love must arriage. Ihis order easily lead to bitter ces.
必定是先有爱情，后有婚姻。本末倒置，很容易自食苦果。
"I won't talk much, but I must tell you the path you've is very tough, a may not be as you hoped."
“别的我不想多说，我只是想告诉你你选的这条路是很艰难的，而且结果并不一定如你所愿。”
"In this world, every es with risks. Nothing is guarao be a hu successful or a hu failure. We must recile with our ces while als to settle. Life is a journey e, and as long as our health remains sound, there will always be a way forward. The only is pushing ourselves excessively and falling si able."
“在这个世界上任何选择都有风险，没有一件事情能有百分百的成功也没有百分百的失败，人既要认命，又要不认命。日子是自己过出来的，只要自己身体能保证健康，就一定有路走。当自己能力欠缺之时就是怕把身体搞垮了。”
"But sinade up your mind, I hope you will make it to the end he result. Quitting halfway is hing my daughter will do."
“但是既然你决定了，那么不管结果如何，我也希望你能坚持走到底。半途而废不是我赵露的女儿。”
"Remember, whatever others offer you reflects your ih and the value you hold for them. "
“记住别人给你的东西是因为你本来就值得，你对别人有价值。别人对你有所求才会给予。”
"People give whe somethiurn. Life is aeh various euphemisms. You ot to overthink and burden yress oime. Regardless, , e propels you forward. Don't worry too much about what others say. Those who opi experieruggle 't truly prehend it. Why should their views matter?"
“人生在世都是利益交换。然后生成了各种美化词。一个人可以不想太多给自己增加烦恼，也可以走一步算一步，但是每一步你都要好好走。要保证自己脚下的每一步都比上一步强，也不要太在乎别人怎么说你。那些打秋千的站着说话不腰疼，理那么多干什么？”