Chapter 25 Adversity
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当然有些并不是她自己个人的经历，而是通过身边的女性同事朋友这些所了解到的。但是这些人的要求是“门当户对”。也就是男生自己是北京人，他也要求自己找的姑娘也是北京土著或者外地在京有住房的姑娘，这是基本条件，是门槛。
If you are uahi up for dis.
若门槛都没有达到，那么一切都休谈。
Gu Xiang had more free time to think abe and profession because of failures in her work.
事业上的挫折让顾湘分出了很多精力思考人生的两大话题：职场与婚姻。
For an out-of-towablishing herself in Beijing is a formidable ge, let alone owy.
对于一个外地姑娘，要靠自己在北京立足很不容易，她若想靠自己在北京买房那更是难于登天。
Soarriages as business alliances, where personal gaio drive everyone.社会中的现象给她看到的都是些联姻似的婚姻，大家似乎都在向着利益靠近。
Profit before love. However, does a foundation built oerests truly her pursuit of love and marriage?
先有利益再有感情，可是以利益为基石所要建出来的高楼大厦真的是她所追求的爱情与婚姻吗？
Life be ironic—c from eighteehihan a joke?
人生真是可笑，难道她从十八岁就开始的奋斗只是一个笑话吗？
Was her struggle against her inal family merely a jest?
她和自己原生家庭的抗争仅仅是一个笑话吗？
Is it really impossible to find pure love in this world? Must marriage only be a unios, a bindis?
难道这世上就真的找不到纯粹的爱情了吗？难道婚姻的存在就只能是联姻形式，利益捆绑形式吗？
At first gla appear as a tradictory person.
表面上看，她其实是一个矛盾的人。
She valued personal endeavor ar the hard-ears of dedicated labor. However, she felt disheartehose around her who measured love and marriage solely by value aerest, viewing them as overly prad driven by money and gain.
她重视个人奋斗和拼搏，看中努力奋斗得来的果实，但是又被周围那些一切以价值和利益为标尺来衡量爱情和婚姻的人所寒心，觉得他们太实际，太过利益化，是没有感情唯有金钱与利益之人。
heless, when ted with those ossess unabashedly sought panions to share their burdeheir as distasteful, viewing them as seekih and relying on others.
可是当他面对那些自称自己一无所有，却大胆寻求和自己同甘共苦的伴侣时觉得那些人行为可耻，是想吃软饭抱大腿的人。
Ihe kind of love and marriage she sought was oner wouldn't mind her bad and ins but would be entirely drawies and charm.
其实她想追求的爱情和婚姻是对方可以不介意自己的出身和背景，是完全被自己的个人能力和魅力所吸引的。
She engaged iion withiy, being a brilliant and outstanding woman with the goal of finding a man who alshtly iy.
她在社会中努力竞争，成为一个优秀得发光发亮的女人，然后寻找一个同样能在社会中发光发亮的男人。
hem cared about the round. They were drawheir mutual fondher, f a bond unburdened by lineage and soding cals that ofteionships and marriages rooted ierest.
他们俩都可以不介意对方的出生背景，只因为他喜欢她，她爱上他，只因为两人世界里面全是爱，没有出生和背景等利益权衡的婚姻和爱情。
当然有些并不是她自己个人的经历，而是通过身边的女性同事朋友这些所了解到的。但是这些人的要求是“门当户对”。也就是男生自己是北京人，他也要求自己找的姑娘也是北京土著或者外地在京有住房的姑娘，这是基本条件，是门槛。
If you are uahi up for dis.
若门槛都没有达到，那么一切都休谈。
Gu Xiang had more free time to think abe and profession because of failures in her work.
事业上的挫折让顾湘分出了很多精力思考人生的两大话题：职场与婚姻。
For an out-of-towablishing herself in Beijing is a formidable ge, let alone owy.
对于一个外地姑娘，要靠自己在北京立足很不容易，她若想靠自己在北京买房那更是难于登天。
Soarriages as business alliances, where personal gaio drive everyone.社会中的现象给她看到的都是些联姻似的婚姻，大家似乎都在向着利益靠近。
Profit before love. However, does a foundation built oerests truly her pursuit of love and marriage?
先有利益再有感情，可是以利益为基石所要建出来的高楼大厦真的是她所追求的爱情与婚姻吗？
Life be ironic—c from eighteehihan a joke?
人生真是可笑，难道她从十八岁就开始的奋斗只是一个笑话吗？
Was her struggle against her inal family merely a jest?
她和自己原生家庭的抗争仅仅是一个笑话吗？
Is it really impossible to find pure love in this world? Must marriage only be a unios, a bindis?
难道这世上就真的找不到纯粹的爱情了吗？难道婚姻的存在就只能是联姻形式，利益捆绑形式吗？
At first gla appear as a tradictory person.
表面上看，她其实是一个矛盾的人。
She valued personal endeavor ar the hard-ears of dedicated labor. However, she felt disheartehose around her who measured love and marriage solely by value aerest, viewing them as overly prad driven by money and gain.
她重视个人奋斗和拼搏，看中努力奋斗得来的果实，但是又被周围那些一切以价值和利益为标尺来衡量爱情和婚姻的人所寒心，觉得他们太实际，太过利益化，是没有感情唯有金钱与利益之人。
heless, when ted with those ossess unabashedly sought panions to share their burdeheir as distasteful, viewing them as seekih and relying on others.
可是当他面对那些自称自己一无所有，却大胆寻求和自己同甘共苦的伴侣时觉得那些人行为可耻，是想吃软饭抱大腿的人。
Ihe kind of love and marriage she sought was oner wouldn't mind her bad and ins but would be entirely drawies and charm.
其实她想追求的爱情和婚姻是对方可以不介意自己的出身和背景，是完全被自己的个人能力和魅力所吸引的。
She engaged iion withiy, being a brilliant and outstanding woman with the goal of finding a man who alshtly iy.
她在社会中努力竞争，成为一个优秀得发光发亮的女人，然后寻找一个同样能在社会中发光发亮的男人。
hem cared about the round. They were drawheir mutual fondher, f a bond unburdened by lineage and soding cals that ofteionships and marriages rooted ierest.
他们俩都可以不介意对方的出生背景，只因为他喜欢她，她爱上他，只因为两人世界里面全是爱，没有出生和背景等利益权衡的婚姻和爱情。